"H and I are supposed to meet up tonight and go over all of the details of the paper work. I am going to discuss my concerns with him. I agree with VS, I need to be able to look him in the eyes and ask some very point blank questions and see his responses."
Just keep it calm and civil.. don't let him see you sweat.
This.. in the scheme of things is not a life altering decision. This is just some "guidance". The work starts after you 2 settle this.. no matter which way things go.
Best thing I can tell you.. is be a friend. Whatever happens.. you will be ready.. Just go out there and do this thing.. pay attention to what he says.. watch his body language. Listen to your "Little Voice".
Good luck.. and remember... Smile!
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.