I was meaning the texts from him. If you feel used, then back off. You were doing really well before her Dad was in the hospital and you can continue that way. Stop offering to buy her things, quit taking out the trash(unless it is OM). Let her sit in the situation she created. No more helping. No more staying for dinner with the kids when you are supposed to have them. It's time to get back to work.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory