Thanks guys. I have tried really hard to stay focused on what is important, my family. Ex isn't part of that anymore and I am going to find away for him to not create anymore havoc in our lives.
I know he hates when I throw myself in with the kids but it really is about us now. The only thing left for him to do to hurt me is marry the skank. I can't control that but I can wipe out memories of him in the house by making changes. That is my game plan.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory