If nothing else hon, this will allow you to drop the rope and maybe help you to stop being there for him to help pick up the pieces. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Maybe it is time for some "Kat cake" with Hooters Orange icing...

love ya, kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory