1. Scheduling time with the children is important, spending time with the children is important unless your X decides it is inconvient.

2. Your X will use you for every purpose they can in order to benefit themselves if you allow them too!

3. Love dies and indifference sets in eventually.

4. you will have less influence on your childrens daily interactions and you better get used to it in a hurry.

5. Wish and want all you can, but that an 1.50 gets you a cup of coffee

6. Continue to take care of yourself and look for healthy relationships because you will find flags raised very quickly in most new ones

7. Keep reading the material keep improving yourself and set new goals, do not backtrack or you may find yourself right back where you started.

Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!