IMO, the more you do to meet his needs, the more he will work to meet yours and the closer you will become to each other.
Thanks for this. I don't know why I need to be reminded constantly, but I do need to get a specific list together. I do alot of little things for H every day, but I think it's important to be aware and step outside the routine in finding new ways to communicate his importance to me.
I *am* doing well, I'm so grateful to be where I am. There's always more to work on, but I'm happy in the process.