H and I are supposed to meet up tonight and go over all of the details of the paper work. I am going to discuss my concerns with him. I agree with VS, I need to be able to look him in the eyes and ask some very point blank questions and see his responses.
I want to save my M, but am not sure of H's motives...which is what is scaring me.
In the end, does the ends justify the means? I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place. Is H just bating me? Or can we over come all of this?....oh the questions that running through my little mind!!!
I have learned so much from this board...DB is about saving myself first! which I have managed slowly but surely to do...so in this time frame on the paper work...will H see that? or is he just doing this to save himself some cash???
time will tell!
will keep you posted!
((((VS and FG))))
christsa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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