thank you for your words, too...I talked to others yesterday that gave me some insights on little things i could do to cut the tension and that was wonderful..But the most hopeful thing I found here, is hope that my situation is not doomed. I used to feel Soooo alone and really thought my H was going off the deep end. But not so, I'm not alone and there are a LOT of people hurting just like we are. Haven't read the book yet, but I definitely plan to.
