My W and I take overnight getaways twice a year to a whirlpool suite out of town. We either go to dinner or bring a sushi platter to the room. Once she fed it to me on the way, that was cool. We go dancing or to a show and then back to the room for some romance. We have breakfast in bed the next morning and then do a little shopping. We also go to the Jimmy Buffett concert every year and act like kids again. Our rule is "What happens at Buffett stays at Buffett". We never intend to stop dating each other, it keeps things fresh.