Good. It really does seem to help alot. Did she tell you how? It might feel a little stupid at first, but don't worry about it. Yes Hope, your H is a little crueler in his words sometimes than mine, but the message is still the same and I have come to really appreciate that I too am not alone in this. And my H too has started to apologize after the alien sightings. Which also helps a little.

Posted something on my thread in newcomers, my last entry (who knows who else has been there.) if you are interested. Have a good day. So this is the weekend of the trip?

If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.