To John...I agree above...let go of the grudge and move forward. If you read Gray's book, one of the keys to growing, grieving the loss of your S and moving on...is forgiving them. Next...is to forgive yourself.....

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;