We are not S yet, but if I have my way it will be very soon. I just need to know how to tell my boys. Please give me some advice.

I never wanted this, but H has a gf and wants out now. I finally get that he has NO regard for me and I need to be done.

Any and all advice welcome.

Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011