Not a single step toward you? I don't agree with that. THink about the funeral weekend. She's invited you for dinner, let's you help her, etc. She took your texts of emotion and continued to invite you over for dinner, etc. Believe me, those are steps toward you.

I was at a funeral recently. Didn't know it at the time, but my cousin was there with his wife and they are getting divorced. I remember thinking how cold she was to him. No hugs, no looks, no nothing.

YOu are Roger, a child of God. A believer of God. You know that with God all things are possible. Pray. Stay away from B. She will "fill you up" in ways you don't realize, which in turn, will lower your resolve to fight for your marriage. I see it already. I see a very different man from your posts after this weekend and I could be wrong, but I think you spent a good chunk of time with her this weekend. Either way, you can't stop fighting. YOu know this.