Hey lisa, ahh, yes I forgot he was away with his Mum.

I replied. I was going to ask you, if I dont do option a) have it out with him, but do option b) try and see how the land lies with him first (i dont even know if he is still with her, but I assume he is).. then how did you cope with it?

I now know that he is with someone else, and now I am meeting him for a drink under those circumstances, which feels really freaky and wierd and no matter how I handle it, I dont know what to expect. I've never been in that sitch before. Got any advice for me? Actually, maybe I should post on my own thread.. sorry!...