Hey Beth I understand your concern on your H's health. It is normal. H is also your friend too. I know it is hard place for you now because your hands are tied. I would still let him take the lead. If he needs your help, just be ready with your helping hands...... Like they said, Keep up the good PMA.....for both of you. NW626
Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3 It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!