I agree, there has to be some compromise there, perhaps, go round for a few hours? You dont really need to stay overnight, for a cat do you? Or is she worred about getting burgled , so really did want you to housesit?
I suppose he has bought it up twice now, so he is cognisant of it and is wondering whethere you are going or not, but yes, very awkward for you that he wont just SAY! But thats these DAMs for you.
I think you should just be aiming to reduce negativity (I am not sure you are in stage 2.5 btw, I thought I was, back in the summer, but I realise, we were more 1.5.. we werent even true friendship as I had NO idea what he was thinking. Also, the way he sits 'near' you on the sofa but no touchong, thats exactly what my ex did evertime he came round. I think if he was more tectile in these sitches, in a non-s*xual way, then, yes, 2.5)..what I am trying to say is, dopnt try and run before you can walk? MC might have to wait until the Nw Year, or spring even? Just aim to continue building trust in being around one another for now? And taking time out, as Julia said, may help with that?
Still rooting for you girl !
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
