I feel like we have dealt with the affair over and over again. When I moved home after I had told him about the affair, he did everything in his power to show he loved me and I pretty much shunned it, I was still talking to the other guy and like playing a game or something, now I can't understand or believe I did that to my husband. Of course, when he realized I was still talking to him, the fighting was horrible and then I made my husband move out. Since he has moved back, over two years ago, I almost feel like I'm being punished by him.