Well guys, hope everyone has been doing good. I haven't been able to really be on here lately because of my clinicals. Which are going great!!! I'm actually working in a lab right now drawing patients' blood!! yay! Friday I got blood on all my draws...today, not so much, but it's the experience that matters! And I'm learning alot! As you can see from my previous thread that this weekend was not the greatest...Friday night was great, had a great time with friends. Saturday, not so much. Sunday was ok. I was able to go over to my MIL's and use her printer and have her proofread my response to the motion of parenting time and today she went and filed it with the court for me. I thank God for her because she has been so supportive thru all of this and has been able to help me with so much. STBX decided to go stay with the kids this morning while she went to the courthouse. We both were at her house at the same time, I was there dropping the kids off and he was there to stay with them. Didn't say much, but I showed him the new shoes I got D1. He had bought some for her a couple weeks ago, but they didn't fit her and so these were the one I got when I exchanged them. This was the first time we had seen each other since last Monday, I believe. Tonight, I got home from clinicals and the kids were crazy!!! So after MIL left, we chased each other around the house playing tickle monster. It was actually quite fun! Wore me out! Afterwards, I put them to bed and I layed with S3 for a little bit and cuddled. :-) He can be so sweet sometimes! About 8:30 STBX called...he knows S3 goes to bed at 8. So I told him he was already asleep. He said it was the first time he'd had a minute all day to call him because he was so busy. I said ok. He asked how my clinicals went. I told him fine. He asked how many draws I had, I told him. He asked again, how they were going, I said fine. He said ok. I said gotta go, bye, and we hung up. I know this is his response to me detaching from him completely. In the past when I tried detaching, he would start like this, wiggling his way in with little questions about how I've been doing and so forth. Before tho, it was all part of DB'ing. This time tho, I really have detached. As much as it sucks to be alone and not have someone to talk to about my day, I really don't want to talk to him about it. That's what my girlfriends are for!!! And you guys! lol Thank you guys so much for reading my rants!
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!