Working on a friendship

[optimistwife]

I am sorry that your H is still living in a hidden state. (not telling his family) Of course they will be disappointed. He isn't acting like a man, and he knows it.

I think that finding youself in faith is a great thing. You are living your life in a positive way, helping others, unashamed of how it looks. He is the one that needs a path, something outside of school and himself.

Being true to yourself it being attractive. You shouldn't undo who you are for another person (I think we've all been guilty of that to some extent).

I am glad that you are finding strength! And maybe he will see the power of god through your changes? Obviously he notices...