He doesn't know what you're thinking, and it's making him nervous?
I'm just bordering craziness thinking he intentionally, or even unintentionally, is 'playing' me.
I broke away from that emotional roller coaster over a year ago...and I don't want to get on it with a D in the courts.
I can't imagine H being that dilusional to think I'm looking the other way and happy with his latest decision.
Decision #1...cheat on wife. Decision #2 15 months later....walk out on wife and kids. Decision#3 30 months later...file D papers on wife when things have been friendly and easy going.
But...he needed money!!!
Sorry...I'm venting a bit but the truth is I'm scared.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home