It's official.......what now?

[MrsLBW]

Mishka,
I would like to say congratulations also. I know that this is a difficult time, but you have to think of it as a new beginning. Wait until you see how wonderful it can be without all of the stress of being married to him anymore. I know that you still have to deal with him because you share a son, but you can limit that as much as possible, and in order to save your sanity, I recommend that you do limit the contact.
I'm sure that you don't remember me.. I haven't posted since last January, but I check on you from time to time. My H left me 1 1/2 years ago for OW and we haven't even gotten a legal sepatation yet because he is soooo difficult and he won't agree with anything. Meanwhile he is still with the "broom" (that is a new word--don't remember THAT one from last year--I assume it means "witch" or the "b" word?!) and I have had to take him to court for support and custody-but no separation has happened yet.
I think my bomb was before yours, but I am still dealing with all of this crap and it is such a waste of emotion.
Meanwhile I have met the most wonderful man who is completely understanding of my situation and sooo patient. He does not have a mean bone in his body and makes this 46 year old mother of 2 feel sexy again and I am so grateful that God sent him to me. I am not a very religious person, but I do believe that He had a huge hand in this. I think it is true-"everything happens for a reason". So, be patient-get yourself out there-join a group of some kind-even lurk on a dating website-because you never know. Don't dwell on what could have been--enjoy what is to be!
Good luck. I'll check in with you again!
Ginger