I wasn't going to post this but it gives you a good idea of how my W thinks
W called me today and said this is going to be a crazy week for her busy taking care of her dads dog, working and dealing with everything she has to do taking care of the kids, etc.
I almost said something but understanding my W's way of thinking of things, she equates buying them stuff with taking care of them, she dropped off the clothes she bought them this morning, she stopped by the school to place an order form for some new sweatshirts and today D9 girl scout meeting she was in charge of buying the drinks, so she had to drop off the drinks. There is nothing else regarding the kids scheduled for this week, no games, no more girl scout meetings, nothing.
Its scarry, W actually believes she is taking care of the kids. In her mind she is, eventhough they are never with her, she did take them for 5 hours on Saturday to get their hair cut, shopping and lunch
When you kick a dog so many times the dog learns to avoid you
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Amount of time WAM spent with kids so far this month = 1.45