I have just caught up! I too liked Lisa's edits, they were the bits that stuck out to me too. If you feel it is right to put the ILY at the end then you should do it. Does it feel 'natural'? Personally I like it.
Sending positive, encouraging vibes across the pond!
(((((Lisa)))))(((((Julia)))))(((((BobbiJo))))) Well, I'm not giving it to her today, she is still sick, and sounds terrible. I tried to express sympathy as I was leaving this morning, I got back something about being sick is part of life. The tone was that she didn't want my sympthy, at least that's what I heard.
I'm feeling ok, myself, so far. Maybe there are some advantages to never going near your wife!
(((Jeff))) sorry she is still sick but this will give you time to make anymore changes that you want.
(((Hugs))) stay well
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Hmm.. yes, maybe in an envelope, unsealed.. on her pillow? I wouldnt give it to her as she is leaving the house, or on her way to work. Defo in the evening, before bed. Go for it Jeff.
Love Al x
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You could post it? Then you are taking away any loaded stuff about 'leaving' it somewhere to find... or is that a bit ludicrous. Or maybe the boys would see it... or leaving it in her 'space' such as her room may be a good idea - although are you allowed in there? Maybe up against her bedside lamp?
I like the idea of leaving on the nightstand in an envelope, but I would definitely seal it. I don't think you want to leave it open for the possibility of one of the boys finding it and deciding to take a peek, ya know?
Hope you and the boys don't catch whatever W's got!
(((Jeff)))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
I was thinking of giving it to her as I was on the way out the door, on a day she doesn't work. I could leave it on her pillow, I pick up the mail from the post office (so posting it wouldn't help!), and usually put her's on the bed in the guestroom. I think I would seal it, just in case.
I hope the kids don't get it either, but I don't think there's much hope of that! I will probably catch something, too!