You are so nice to be there waiting, ready to explain it all to her parents and relieve her of any burden she might have.
When I spoke to her Dad I simply and calmly said "W has been away with her adultery partner and continues her affair". I didn't talk it down, minimise it or anything like that. Nothing of the sort.
They are all outraged by her actions.
Will write more soon - I am still numb and taking all of this in.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)