Wow, so things are still a bit stuck and you still arent sure? Wow, its been rumbling along for a while hasnt it. You sound ok though, and I like your plan of waiting until after your holiday to make a decision. You mentioned having less respect for him, do you think thats because of how he has acted this past 1-2 years (and can you work on your forgiveness?) or have you just outgrown him a little?
Its positive that you had a good chat on the phone and at least there doesnt seem to be an ow on teh scene, which frankly, I am envious of! It makes things alot easier, that it is just about you and him and you two can make a decision basied on your possible R and not a third party clouding the issues.
Good to have you back!
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
