Hmm.. thats a point isnt it. It IS a joint mortgage and so he has a responsibility to keep paying half. Its not like its covered, like mine is, by a third party and just because he left doesnt mean he can stop paying. Unless he was giving you the house of course, or you buying him out. I just wondered if it would take the pressure of him, if you offered to pay it all, but maybe thats not right in this case.
I know Lisa said look the other way.. but do you mind if I keep watching and waiting, LOL! I hope he gets in touch soon Julia, just out of respect really. Damn DAMs hey.
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread