NC is good for now. She just had a great time with him and can go another few months until she needs her next fix. Then what? Will you clean up the mess for her again? You are so nice to be there waiting, ready to explain it all to her parents and relieve her of any burden she might have. We need a new word, doormat is not strong enough.
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W has asked how I could ever get past this and I have said I cannot do it without her help. I need NC in place with OM and complete and total transparency. Otherwise I will not get past it.
I should add that I must go otherwise.
Sara/Phoenixdeux this is heavy. I don't know what the heck to do here. I threw some of the gifts out that OM got for her yesterday which she seemed to respect.
I am looking at an apartment tomorrow. Seriously, I have no idea if I want to get past this with her.
Very confused - she was never like this before.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
