Please send me good karma!!....I'm gonna need it!

[Silent Chrleader]

OK, I have a dilema. I have asked for STD testing from the OW. She has said this is not necessary because she was only with her H for 8 years prior to "one-time" with MY H. But, obviously her credibility is not so great and her H wasn't exactly an upstanding guy either. I have a concern for HPV, because as I understand it, men can't be tested for it, and it can remain "inactive" for a long period of time and then come to light later. OW has been sexually active with multiple partners in the past. I have never been with anyone but H and, so far as I know, H had never been with anyone but me prior to the "one-time". OW now says that she was tested for HPV when she had her pap in July because her Dr asked her if she had any new partners and she said yes, so they ran the STD screen. Well, the "one-time" was on July 21st, so I'm to believe within the week after that she was tested? This doesn't ring true to me. So, I have asked for verification of the date.

I know I am probably going overboard and that I am paranoid, but I DON'T want to live with this question on my mind! Am I being an idiot???

I hate this!! I really do!!!