Is this worth saving, or am I only fooling myself?

[Dash]

Nope don't think its too late. My H had moved out since May 8th. I didn't find SAA until September had almost no contact with him from May 8th to Oct 3rd when I started a strict following everything Plan A that ran through Nov 15th. I had almost 5 months of 80% no contact cuz he was a raging maniac angry fog babbler really bad. So i started after 5 months of 80% no contact. And I wouldn't have done it any other way. And I did it while he's living with OW. Never too late just needs to be done by the book.

yes go back an re-read the book. cant' hurt.

I will do that this evening. Perhaps I was in a fog myself when I first read it.

I suppose the next step is to GAL and keep doing the other positive things that I'm doing for myself. I've read a bunch of other threads here and I see a transition of sorts for a lot of people who are further along in the process than I am myself, including people who are at the stage of walking away themselves and being okay with it.

At this point I do still want my marriage, but it's very hard to put out of my mind the things she has said, actually it's more the way she has said them than her actual words, but either way, it's tough. I have been successful today in asking myself if she's really the type of woman that I want to be in my life.

Only time will tell I suppose.