Yes, it sucks big time to watch my daughter suffer like that...the only thing that I can even think of to lessen the blow for me is that the pain will eventually subside in her. Hopefully without too much collateral damage. Here I am agonizing over this and the X introduces a new boyfriend to my D7. How did I ever get involved with a person with so little moral fiber in the first place???? what kind of an A.H. would even consider doing that. In his defense maybe he did bring it up....yeah right. I better not hear that he even raises his voice with D7 or I will end up behind bars.