I guess if that is his reaction, though, then it was right for him to leave in the first place....
You have your answer right there BBJ. I know that I often walked on egg shells in order to "make sure" that I would not do anything that would give W an excuse to leave. The problem is that most WAS are far gone ... if not geographically at least mentally. Throughout this whole process, the LBS is working at the relationship. The WAS rarely does.....so, stop agonizing over it (easy for me to say)...if he wants out let him go. It hurts like hell...the kids suffer but I honestly think that this is the only real shot you guys have of making it (at this point). Just my 2 cents BBJ...pulling for you.