Nope don't think its too late. My H had moved out since May 8th. I didn't find SAA until September had almost no contact with him from May 8th to Oct 3rd when I started a strict following everything Plan A that ran through Nov 15th. I had almost 5 months of 80% no contact cuz he was a raging maniac angry fog babbler really bad. So i started after 5 months of 80% no contact. And I wouldn't have done it any other way. And I did it while he's living with OW. Never too late just needs to be done by the book.

yes go back an re-read the book. cant' hurt.


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca