So has your W agreed to the NC? Has she indicated that what she wants is you and your M?

Good for you GH. I know that must have been awful to do.

How did her family react? Were they surprised?

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength