Had a good time with H. He ended up staying until 7, which is much longer than I think he originally planned. We ended up watching football, a movie, and having pizza. He is still a bit more distracted than he has been, but I am not going to attribute it to too much at this point.
A good thing is that he called me after he went home and asked if I would read his letter of intent for his applications and comment/correct it. When he e-mailed it to me he finished with 'thanks sunshine'.
That was good because it let me write back and flirt a little.
sometimes when I do stuff I hear Jody's voice coaching me in the background.
Which leads me to my DB session. I took an anti-histamine last night at bedtime and woke up only 45 minutes before I had to call!. Barely enough time to feed dogs, have coffee and get my thought collected.
We went over all the recent things that have changed, and so far all has gone fairly well. She did mention that when things get too comfortable that they can pull back. She had lots of suggestions on how to push to stage 3.
Bring out more allure, leave them hanging/wanting... Find fun activities that can be romantic (going to try baking/cooking with H...)
A skill for me to work on is to shift our romantic feelings from looks, to having real romance be about who we are inside. I have to look for opportunities to coment on H's actions, not just how he looks.
Well, I have had a productive day overall. Got some leaves cleaned up and now I think I should go to the gym and feel good about life. Haven't worked out in over a week and I could use it!
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
