Well its Monday, weekend over. Asked the BIL to leave due to not paying rent and sitting around baked every night. No arguments from him. This is it for my visual stress. Bills are caught up, thank the Lord, and now my emotions are on level ground. Couple of small signs from her, nothing worth going into. Word is she is miserable and looks it. Haven't seen her physically in person in over 3 weeks. Her birthday is Wednesday, wasn't planning on acknowledging it, is that wrong? Should I? Stillhaving an emotional battle about thansgiving. Figure I'll show up for dinner, stay for coffee after and leave. My kids say they will not go if I don't. Not fair to my FIL. Want this to be over, NOW!!!! Ain't gonna happen, just thought I'd voice that.