W flew away for a trip with OM to ther far North of Australia. I met her yesterday before work and waited in her office for her. She had been sending me all kinds of text messages to deceive me but the more brazen they got, the more obvious it became that she was up to no good.
We spent the day together walking and talking.
I told her how I knew OM was in town and how - and she came clean about it all. I have also exposed this adultery to her family members and W seems somewhat resigned and even relieved about it. She said to me yesterday "I knew this situation would end badly".
W has asked how I could ever get past this and I have said I cannot do it without her help. I need NC in place with OM and complete and total transparency. Otherwise I will not get past it.
Quite frankly I have no idea how I can get past it at the moment, or even whether I want to get past it.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
