Remember so not listen to fog babble and don't talk about the relationship. So I'm gathering you know some information about SAA but you don't actually have the book. IF you do the book must be read all the way through with out skipping.
No I just did a stellar Plan A (7 weeks)while my H is living with the OW. I just started plan B Saturday. So that is incorrect and I feel that it was effective, guess we'll see. But before I did that I GAL'd and got myself in a good place.
I do have the book and have read it. I could have sworn that it said if the spouse moves out to do plan B, I must have missed something. I suppose it's too late now to try plan A since I've already sort of started the plan B part of it. Otherwise, I lose even more credibility in her eyes. I'm not sure I even have any left. I don't think at this point that she even wants to be friends.
Maybe it's too late now, since I skipped a step. I was listening to the advice of other people that said "don't try to be her friend at all as this only helps her get over you".
I can definitely tell she's in a much farther away place about us now than she was when this all first started happening. I don't know that there's a hope at all anymore, but for some reason I just can't give up.
Me 43: Her 34 M 08/22/2005 Son born 12/31/2006 Suspicion of EA 10/10/2008 EA confirmed 10/11/2008 WAW 10/13/2008