Well, my H told me before he moved out "you know that when I make a decision I NEVER look back!!" Stupid me, believed him twice, once when we got married "forever" and once when he left for good... I guess that explains why "forever" and "always" are words I am trying NOt to use and I find hard to believe. Except in some cases when I am pretty safe and sure things will not change no matter what happens...