Yeah, I know, I have heard that many times, from you friends here and my friends in RL. Weird though he started to "wig out" don't have a better word, last year the day after we got home from Green Bay when we went and saw the Dancing with the Stars tour there. He was different that next day. Told me he didn't know what was wrong with him. He was better until the day he walked into the embroidery place and then really flipped out because of the look on my face. My friend Tiff and the weight loss pschycologist I was seeing in Wichita were the only two that knew about him and what he was accusing me off. Tiff thought maybe he was cheating too. If he was I don't have clue with who or when. The psychologist said, because guys were looking at me and were showing me attention (I can't say that I felt any attention when I lost weight, but I never made eye contact with anyone) it was scaring H. I know she was so right now when I look back at it. I think I knew at the time, but didn't want to admit what she was saying was right on with how H was acting.