I know you are right. I just think he needs to do SOMETHING. Stay, or go, make a choice....
If he leaves, I guess there is just the fear there, that he is a guy who is very stubborn. If he decides to leave, he will make sure he sticks by that even if he hates it...
He said before that he wouldn't move home after we told Nathan Daddy and Mommy weren't going to be living together. Because, he said, "It hurt so much to tell Nathan but we DID it, so we can't go back on it". Of course, he DID move in with us, but he never actually talked about it with Nathan, said it 'wasn't necessary'...
Anyway my hope is that moving out, he would see what he already knows, that I am not the cause of his unhappiness, that he does still love me and he wants a life with me and the kids.
On the flip side, I fear that moving out he would feel, "I am FREE! No more annoying BBJ...I can have the kids when I want them but not have to answer to BBJ when I want to go have boys' nights, flirt, pick up ladies, etc..."
I guess if that is his reaction, though, then it was right for him to leave in the first place....
