Bud, I feel myself getting to the same point where I see you at. Wanting to do the right thing with a darn good dose of "WTF am I trying to do this for?". Is that close?
Listen to others - and listen to yourself. Dig deep. Giving up is the easy way out - but at some point it may BE the only thing left to do. Only you know that my friend.
I understand the attraction of "B". Remember in Oct when I mentioned "S" wanted to go for coffee and I was all alone (W took k's to her folks for the weekend)? Never did get together for coffee (nor anything else! ) but "S" is texting me a fair bit. I know more of her sitch and at times think we are both travelling the same path. We can relate to each other and yes it feels good - so I can relate to your struggle. I try to bring myself back to being grounded and keep "S" at a distance. I have not got to the point where I am done fighting - and I realized that this trip. So "S" will stay at a distance.
A lot of rambling to say only you know what is RIGHT for Roger. We can tell you what we see based on what you tell us, but only you know. IMO
Be strong.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
) but "S" is texting me a fair bit. I know more of her sitch and at times think we are both travelling the same path. We can relate to each other and yes it feels good - so I can relate to your struggle. I try to bring myself back to being grounded and keep "S" at a distance. I have not got to the point where I am done fighting - and I realized that this trip. So "S" will stay at a distance. 
