Insightful as ever. You are right and I like what you are saying about building enough PMA to sustain two people for a while. You really do a great job of getting me refocused on a positive way to handle this. Thanks.
The only concern I have about real physical illness is that he told me he has chest pains that radiate into his arms while at rest. I think he may be stressing himself into a heart attack. But, there is nothing I can do about it.