Thanks everyone. So far all is good. I will post when I get a chance. H said he would be here around 1pm. I am on lunch break.

H did get a little testy last night. Very minor. I would just like some advice on how to handle the little things, since I do believe it's really NOT one big thing that happens but rather the little stuff that a person finally just says enough is enough and since I am in this for the long haul I would like to know how I could do better.

Sirprize that sounds great. Kind of like a timeline. Yes it's important especially for those that are first finding themselves here that the m won't be fixed in a day or a month more like years. My h has been gone 2+ years.

I will see what I can put together. I am on this huge project for my work and have to present to the executives this week, so have a ton of stress on me too at the moment.

Hope all are doing good!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"