Hi Ali,

Thanks for your post. Yeah the ILY could have been a leaker especially as he was drinking...:).

I actually don't have to go and housesit, but I do need to tell my friend ASAP if I need someone else to feed the cat. Of course I can always take a cab there on my lunches if it comes down to it and feed the cat while not actually staying there. I really think the best thing for my sitch is to stay put, but only if H somehow asks me to. I'm still waiting for some kind of inspiration in terms of how to handle this. Basically I have until tomorrow night as my friend leaves on Wednesday night.

I do like the browsing for watches thing too. He even made comments about things like how if we bought X model we'd have to take turns wearing it and how silly that would look sharing 1 watch between us. So it's the little things that add up. Although the best part of the night was when he was IMing with his cousin and used the sweet nickname for me and told her that he had me sitting there with him. She was looking for help on booking a hotel. It's the normalcy that really matters...

Thanks for the good wishes Ali. I'll definitely post with any updates, though I suspect things will be moving quite slowly for awhile now.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!