Well you nailed it... sometimes I'm ok with it some days I'm not and I act accordingly.... I am going to start droping it more... I have really gotten two rules here.... some say distance yourself, not dark just not welcoming either.... some say the more H is around us and kids less time around OW and more time to see us in good light and OW to start to nag or not like it.. but bottom line I need to do what I'm comfortable with ..... I'm setting boundries, just not doing it all at once.... when I travel during week he stays here but I think I will start having that change.. we have a dog though so it makes it harder as he can't take the dog with him - no pets at his place.... and I'm not here then ... I'm going to start having some of his stuff packed each time he comes over too.... a bag here and bag there...
Also I will start with a half marathon... not a full are you kidding.... I'm going to start running 5k again I think first.. baby steps.
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
