I am not sure what is transpiring. Things are weird. H came by on saturday to see d13. I said a polite hello and went about my business. He stayed a few hours and I barely saw him. I wanted my space. H was not too happy about that. The few times I passed threw the room he had a scowl on his face. Whatever.
Sunday came and I braced myself for him coming by again to see d13. H called and said he wasn't feeling well. Asked if I could drop d13 off to see him and he would drive her home on his way to work. I agreed to since I had to go to the store and would be passing near there any way. I didn't ask him what was wrong..he did tell me he could sleep for days he was so wiped. Life of a teenager...must be hard at almost 45.
Anyway, d13 told me he slept most of the time while she was there. Her baby cousin was there so she played with her. H told her he was having terrible stomach cramps, couldn't eat, etc. H has a very emotional stomach. Always has always will. I think stress may be the culprit!!
He dropped her off and called after to ask if i could take her to her dentist appt. today as his car is having a major problem and he wasn't felling well..etc. etc. I told him that it was fine. I had taken the day anyway (the kids are off today for parent conferences).
So far d13 has not hear from him today. Not sure if he is sleeping or dealing with his car or what. My dad thinks that me setting a deadline for the insurance probably stunned him. He thinks H probably thought I would never cut him off and now he is stuck...perhaps because he thought I would always be here...when he knows MOW won't. What do you think Snodderly?