Maybe I should be in piecing part 3?

[Hope4us]

Hey I was just trying to say that a man's idea of romance is not always the same as a woman's and if that was what he was aiming for he might try looking at it from the other side. He could always set the bath up for her and then go somewhere else, then it just becomes a kind act.

kat

Thanks Kat, I appreciate your thoughts. I HAVE thought of something romantic with the jacuzzi/fireplace, but I think if I set something up like that, she'll feel it's too pursuing and PLANNED which is something that right now I don't think she's ready for.

But......There is a candle shop in Gatlinburg that we always get candles from when we're there. The two guys who run the thing are totally gay (not that there's anything wrong with that!) and we can never remember the name of the store so we just call it "that gay candle shop". We're hitting that crafts area up the first day we're there, so if the opportunity strikes, we'll have candles in the room anyway so it's almost like I can plan it without planning it, if that makes sense.