I hear ya Pup. And there might be the perfect opportunity. They delivered our new mattress/box on Saturday. I told W I was going to take the water bed down and set the mattress/box on the floor since it was going to take another 7-10 weeks for the frame to be delivered. She made a comment like she didn't want to do that. It seemed she was balking at that because she was having second thoughts about moving back into bed. Maybe not, maybe she just really doesn't want to put the bed on the floor and wants to make a grand production out of the new bed, but I'm going to set the mattress/box on the floor Thanksgiving weekend. Won't really have time to tear down the water bed before then and it'll give us this weekend away to see what happens.

If I set the mattress/box on the floor and she doesn't sleep on it with me, it'll be an opportunity to be a little firm with her again. Because before we bought the bed I point blank asked her "if we get a bed, are you going to sleep in it" and she said "yes". I then said "with me?" and she said "duh..yes, with you".

Ok, confidence soaring! Thanks everyone.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.