I'm just trying to catch up with folks. Sorry about the L, but you're doing the right thing. You have to consult...it will make things so much clearer for you...and likely less scary from a financial standpoint as well.
And, I am sooooo proud of you on the dinner with friend!!! Keep that stuff up. It will make a huge difference in how you feel about you and how you feel about your sitch and everything else.
I can honestly say that I had a blast this weekend...and, I haven't done much over the past few months that wasn't overshadowed by my sitch. But, this weekend I was free from it. My new friend...who I met on Friday night who's in a similar sitch would periodically mention her sitch, and we'd talk for a few minutes about both our H's, etc. But, it wasn't nearly as sad as it has been! I'm finding Amy. Amazingly...I didn't know she was even lost till H dropped the bomb.
You are doing good!!! God will take care of all of us...even in our darkest hours. Hang in there!
Love you! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!