I'm sorry, but I think you could make one of two arguments, plausibly:
1. H4U is playing it perfectly -- right down the middle -- giving his wife lots of space and patience and loving acts, all the while maintaining his own personal boundaries and calling her on her b.s. when he has to.
2. H4U is, if anything, being a little TOO pursuing.
But I don't see how you can make the case that he needs to do even MORE chasing (the bubble bath, etc.). If anything, I still think he needs to do more DISTANCING things, as those seem to be the only things his wife responds to.
I think it's getting very close to the time that SHE needs to chase HIM a little.
